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Am I Scared of Having Kids, Or Do I Just Not Want Them? How to Tell the Difference
Am I scared of having kids? Or do I not want them? Fear of having children and not wanting children feel similar but they're different. Here's how to start untangling them, so you can hear what's actually true.
Sophie van het Erve
Jul 64 min read


I Don't Know If I Want Kids — Now What?
Uncertain about whether you want children? You're not broken or indecisive. Here's why not knowing is worth paying attention to — and what to do with it.
Sophie van het Erve
Jun 153 min read


How I Created a Workbook for Women Who Don't Know If They Want to Be Mothers (The Motherhood Question That Matters)
Why I created a guided workbook for women navigating the motherhood question — without pressure, noise, or outside expectations.
Sophie van het Erve
Feb 46 min read
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